Partners in a long-term relationship usually stop caring about their love life as they get distracted by other chores and what with the kids also coming in the picture. Both the partners believe that their significant other is already attracted to them so why bother going the extra mile pleasing them or seducing them. However if these romantic feelings are not stoked again and again the passions may start to dwindle and both or either one may start to miss those initial days of the relationship which were full of love and promise.
To keep the fire of passion burning strongly, you need to work towards your love life and do everything in your power to keep things interesting. Otherwise a steady romance nevertheless provides a comforting feeling but it will be devoid of any desire. So to bring your love life back to an active mode following are few simple steps which you may practice to make him feel drawn to you intensely.
1. Initiate the love making more
There is nothing which serves as a turn on more for a man than his partner making the first move while between the sheets. Just like women, men also love to be desired and the feeling is doubled when a woman initiates her love for her partner. It does not only show confidence but shows that the woman is comfortable with her partner and not afraid of expressing what she wants.
2. Join him in his activities
Any activity which he loves to spend time doing you may express your enthusiasm and better still join him. For example your boyfriend loves to play video games and spends considerable time doing it, instead of sulking all by yourself you may join him in the fun. In this manner you may not also get to spend time with him but also make him feel welcomed to pursue his hobbies and preferences.
3. Share your interests with him
Find your interests which you both may share and passionately discuss it with him as this will not only be a great bonding exercise but also a way of making him know that you also pursue certain interests. Being knowledgeable about subject of your interests will endear them to you.
4. Be very focused about your physical fitness
One thing will be certain and that is having a lovable body for your partner. Although in the long run looks start to fade and a person may get a little out of shape however being careful with your diet and making healthier choices keeps you in best shape. One also ages in a very beautiful manner. Nowadays more and more people are switching towards a healthier lifestyle and your partner will also be thankful if you love to look after yourself.
5. Practice effective communication
Work on your enunciation and delivery of words which is very important to make your man drawn to you. Also do not keep things to yourself rather if you feel there is an issue in the relationship, find some way of conveying it to him.
6. Be strong and independent
A woman who knows what she wants and what she is doing is more attractive as compared to the one who has little or no opinion about different things in life. You must have your feedback about all the aspects you share with your partner. It is not endearing to be dependent and clingy and unable to fend for your own self.
7. Stand up for your rights
It is very empowering for other woman when they see a stronger woman stand up for her own rights instead of asking for help from her partner. If you feel you are being pressured unreasonably and yet you don’t give in you are inadvertently sending a message that you know how to handle stress and solve the pressure situation without any external help.